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- We cherish all your concerns.
Nation's Concern Contest.
- Let's welcome the guests
for today's show.
Hong Jin-young.
And rapper MC Gree.
- MC.
How old are you now? 10
- I'm 20 years old. 11
- 20 years old. 12
- 20? 13
- I'm so jealous. 14
- You can now do everything that adults do. 15
What is it that you want to do the most? 16
I've always wanted to go to a pub, 17
but it actually wasn't even that fun. 18
- Really? 19
So you just drank alone at home before? 20
- No, not even alone at home. 21
- Not alone? 22
- How would I buy it? 23
I swear I never drank when I was underage. 24
- Oh, so you just smoke... 25
- So, is this how it goes? 26
- And Hong Jin-young. 27
- A new album came out. 28
- A new song came out. 29
It's called 'Love me, love me not'. 30
- Why 'love me not'? 31
Don't you ever want to work less 32
and make time to date someone? 33
- I want to work really hard when I can, 34
and then love someone really hard when I can. 35
- How about you Tae-jun? 36
- Me? 37
- Yes. 38
- He just became... 39
- speechless. 40
- Why? 41
- Can you sing us your song? 42
- Ah, thank you. 43
(Singing) He loves me, he doesn't love me. 44
Loves me, doesn't love me. 45
Loves me, doesn't love me. 46
My pitiful heart. 47
I cannot live without you. 48
Wind, please will you take me away? 49
My love... 50
Thank you. 51
- MC Gree looks so much like Kim Gu-ra's son. 52
- Me? 53
- I almost asked him how his father was doing. 54
- Was that a joke? 55
- No... 56
- I am... 57
- No, I wasn't joking. 58
- Kim Gu-ra is my father. 59
- Kim Gu-ra is your father? 60
- Yes. 61
- What are you talking about, Young- ja? 62
You really didn't know? 63
- You didn't know? 64
- You didn't know for real? 65
- I thought you just do acting. 66
Really? 67
- You really didn't know? 68
- You didn't know because of his name, MC Gree. 69
- You thought MC Gree was someone else. 70
- I though you were someone else. 71
Sorry, sorry. 72
But this is your first time seeing me in person. 73
And I've been around for a long time. 74
Oh, you're Dong-hyun. 75
No... 76
- But some older people... 77
- I saw him when I was little. 78
- Older people might not know that Dong-hyun is MC Gree. 79
- They might not. 80
- Right, right. 81
'The guy who doesn't last long.' 82
Hello. 83
I'm a housewife in my 30s, married for 2 years. 84
Before we got married, my husband told me 85
that he will work hardest to make me happy. 86
But after our marriage, I've been feeling betrayed everyday. 87
"Honey, are you going to work?" 88
"No." 89
"I quit." 90
"I just don't like it." 91
When he got a new job I asked, "How was your day"? 92
"It was okay." 93
"But I quit." 94
- He doesn't stick to one job. 95
- "Why?" 96
"This is ridiculous." 97
"The CEO doesn't do any work." 98
"So I quit." 99
What should I do about my irresponsible husband? 100
A couple days ago, he just quit another job. 101
He's only been to work for 2 weeks. 102
Please help make my husband grow up. 103
- Ay. 104
- Money is another thing, but the fact that 105
he cannot adjust to one place... 106
- Yes. 107
- He might have too much ego. 108
- Or irresponsible. 109
Even my company doesn't hire people 110
with frequent gaps in work experiences. 111
It seems a bit irresponsible. 112
- Let's welcome our guest today. 113
Please come out. 114
How long does he normally work before he quits? 115
It seems like 2 months is the maximum. 116
- I haven't seem him last longer than 3 months. 117
He's been doing package delivery work for 2 months now. 118
And he just told his boss that he will quit. 119
- He just tells that in a one-sided way? 120
- He likes everything in the beginning, 121
but later on, he doesn't like anything. 122
What's really pathetic is that when I wake him up the morning, 123
he will fake illness. 124
- Fake illness? 125
- So when I tell him to call his work, 126
he tells me to call instead. 127
- Instead of him? 128
- He tells me to call his work for him. 129
- Like a school student. 130
- I told him how can I trust him 131
with my 9-months old daughter. 132
I told him. 133
To get things right... 134
- She must've said that. 135
- If I ask him what he's going to do for a living, 136
he says "it will all work out.". 137
- Very irresponsible. 138
I wonder how he was before marriage. 139
Didn't he work before he got married? 140
- He didn't work for very long back then either. 141
But he would tell me that he will work hard after we get married. 142
and that he will never disappoint me again. 143
I was too blinded by love and believed everything he said back then. 144
If I ask him if he remember what he told me before we got married, 145
he says that he just said that to make me eel good. 146
- What is this... 147
- That's what he says. 148
- Why. 149
- Just to make me happy. 150
That's just immature. 151
- Because he doesn't have anything else to say. 152
Okay, let's see your husband. 153
- Honey. 154
- Looks so happy. 155
Hello. 156
- Why do you keep quitting work? 157
- Why? 158
- They ask me to do things differently 159
than what was promised during the job interview. 160
They keep asking me to do 3-4 things at once 161
and my body can't handle it. 162
- So, how many times did you quit your jobs 163
until now? 164
- 6 times during the 2 years I was married. 165
- 6 times? 166
- Why did you quit your first job? 167
- The company closed down. 168
- Oh, you can't help that. 169
- Reasonable. 170
- Right. 171
We should understand that. 172
- The company he first worked at never closed down. 173
- Is she right? 174
- Too many companies. 175
- He might be embarrassed. 176
- Too many companies. 177
- Too many companies... 178
Honestly, how many times did you quit in total 179
- before you got married? 180
- In total? 181
- 35. 182
- What? 183
35? 184
- Are you trying to break the Guinness record? 185
- Why are you trying to quit package delivery work? 186
- I thought I just had to deliver a few packages in a day. 187
But I have to deliver about 200-300 packages a day. 188
- One person? 189
- Yes. 190
- Yes, this issue was on the television. 191
- But you can't even use the elevator, 192
and 5th floor buildings don't even have stairs. 193
- No stairs? 194
- Stairs. 195
- If there are no stairs, you climb up... 196
You mean there is no elevator? 197
- Delivering packages up to 30kg-40kg can be hard. 198
- It's true that package delivery work is hard, 199
but are you saying there are too much packages to deliver? 200
- I live in Uijeongbu and the company is in Suwon. 201
It's very far. 202
- It is. 203
- I think this must be difficult for your husband. 204
Why don't you understand him this time? 205
- But before he quits, he should find an alternative. 206
- Most husbands do that. 207
- He can quit after he finds another job, 208
but we need money for our rent, car lease, 209
insurance, and phone bill. 210
Sometimes, we are past the due date for 2-3 months. 211
We're now buying milk for our baby using government funds, 212
but our baby needs more than just milk. 213
- Like diapers. 214
- For stuff like that... 215
I tell my mother... 216
- You ask her for help. 217
- Yes. 218
- I feel sorry about that, but I usually quit my job 219
in the spur of the moment so I don't have other plans. 220
- In the spur of the moment. 221
In the spur of the moment. 222
- You act very spontaneously, don't you. 223
- Then how do you afford your living? 224
- What's immature is that he calls his mother 225
who just had a cancer surgery and chemotherapy. 226
She needs to rest right now, 227
but my husband calls her for help. 228
- To his mother who has cancer? 229
- Yes. 230
And I feel so bad as her daughter-in-law. 231
As this situation repeats, my mother-in-law tells us 232
that she has no more money to give us. 233
- Is this really true? 234
Do you ask for help to your mother who is battling cancer? 235
- Yes, it's true. 236
It's because I have a family I need to take care of. 237
Otherwise, I'm abandoning my family. 238
So I'm resorting to my mother 239
in order to protect my family. 240
- He just needs to work consistently without quitting. 241
- I get really stressed out at work. 242
- Everyone here gets stressed out too when they work. 243
They just suck it up for their families. 244
- If your husband keeps quitting his job, 245
you must have thought about working yourself. 246
Isn't that right? 247
- I'm thinking about it even now. 248
But my baby is only 9 months old. 249
And there is no one to take care of the baby. 250
- So are you and your husband being frugal 251
and affording your necessities? 252
Is your husband helping with that? 253
- Actually... 254
He's not frugal when it comes to drinking. 255
- What? 256
- Huh? 257
How much does he drink? 258
- He drinks a bottle of soju and a pitcher of beer everyday. 259
- Everyday? 260
- Doesn't he also eat food with his drinks? 261
- Yes. 262
- You're buying your baby's milk with government funding. 263
- If I scold at him for the money he spends on alcohol, 264
he tells me it's not even that much. 265
He actually yells at me. 266
And then he tells me to buy cheaper milk for the baby. 267
- Cheaper? 268
- Yeah, so... 269
- That's it. 270
- That's harsh. 271
- I changed the baby's milk. 272
- To a cheaper one? 273
- Yes. 274
- How much cheaper was it? 275
- The one I've been feeding was 37 dollars. 276
And I changed it to one that is about 30 dollars... 277
- Did the baby throw up? 278
- Yes, she kept throwing up and became constipated. 279
- And your husband kept on drinking? 280
- Is this for real? 281
- How can you tell her to buy cheaper milk 282
- so that you can drink? 283
- Do you feel like it's a waste of money? 284
- You might think that my drinking costs a lot. 285
It's only about 100 dollars a month. 286
- It's not a matter of how much. 287
You're saying that you put your drinking first 288
even if that means your baby is drinking cheaper milk. 289
- There is a reason why I drink. 290
- What is it? 291
- I have to get early and work until late. 292
I feel really stressed out and can't fall asleep. 293
So I drink and go to sleep early 294
to wake up early. 295
- So is it okay for your baby to drink cheap milk 296
because of your life pattern 297
and how tired you are? 298
- I didn't know my baby was reacting badly to the cheap milk. 299
- That is nonsense. 300
If he drinks like that and goes to sleep. 301
He can't wake up the next day. 302
Most days he can't wake up early. 303
He's not even a good drinker. 304
- He doesn't even drink well. 305
- But he can't give up drinking and 306
always ends up drinking over his limit... 307
Which becomes a problem. 308
- And then he asks you to call in sick for him. 309
- Yes. 310
- So what makes you so stressed out? 311
- Let's hear the husband's story in detail. 312
- I do package delivery work now. 313
They don't open up doors late at night 314
because there are many frauds claiming that it is a package delivery. 315
Second problem is payment on delivery. 316
Some people say they will send it directly to the account 317
and then I can't get in contact with them. 318
- So you have to fill it in with your own money. 319
- Well, you haven't been doing package delivery for that long. 320
- 2 months. 321
- You probably drank before that too. 322
- Yes. 323
- Why were you stressed out before? 324
- When I was working at a supermarket, 325
some people want me to pay 1 dollar for a 2-dollar item. 326
When I say they can't do that, they just leave. 327
- You feel stressed out about that? 328
- Also, there are fruits in the supermarket. 329
Some people pick them up and then drops them down harshly. 330
Then the fruits become bruised later on 331
and then we can't sell them. 332
That's a stress for me. 333
- When the fruits are bruised, 334
the owner of the fruits is the owner of the supermarket. 335
- But you're not the only one who works at a supermarket 336
and many people across the country work at a supermarket. 337
But they are still working and doesn't that mean 338
the majority of people bear those stress and 339
continue to work? 340
- I meet with a group of people who work in the same industry. 341
I'm the only one that quits, 342
but they all like drinking too. 343
- That doesn't make any sense. 344
- There is something else you want to say about his drinking? 345
- When I was at a postnatal care center, 346
he would bring some alcohol after work. 347
- He drank at a postnatal care center? 348
- Yes. 349
- Isn't alcohol not allowed there? 350
- So he would hide in his sleeve. 351
- He likes to drink a lot. 352
- During my last month of pregnancy... 353
I got a call saying he passed out on the street drunk. 354
So I drove to pick him up 355
and we both fell on the parking lot while helping him walk. 356
- With a full belly? 357
I fell on my knees to protect my baby 358
and I was so angry. 359
- It was your first baby? 360
- I was thinking 'is he even human?'. 361
And not long ago, 362
he fell over the baby while she was sleeping. 363
The baby was so startled and cried. 364
- Did that serve as an opportunity for him to stop drinking? 365
- No, not really. 366
So I said "What are you doing" and asked him to get out. 367
Then he snared at me and yelled at me. 368
I was holding the baby and he threw a pillow at me. 369
- Was it because he was drunk? 370
- Yes because he was drunk. 371
The next morning, he says "I'm sorry". 372
- I feel like I should stop drinking now. 373
- But in the evenings? 374
- I drink because I have to go to work again. 375
2 years ago, I was walking drunk and 376
got hit by a car driving at 100km. 377
- 100km? 378
- Yes. 379
- 100km is... 380
- I was unconscious for half a month. 381
- Unconscious? 382
- Yes, unconscious. 383
- Shouldn't you stop drinking then? 384
- But I keep drinking again because of stress. 385
- What stress... 386
- Stressed out from the dropped apples in the supermarket. 387
Stressed from people paying 1 dollar for 2-dollar items? 388
- Stressed from being hit at 100km? 389
- Being in a hospital was a stress for me as well. 390
- Being in a hospital? 391
- Being in a hospital for 2 years... 392
- Don't you feel stressed out as you speak right now? 393
- People who love drinking this much 394
tend to cause harm to the people around them. 395
- Right. 396
Very often making mistakes while drunk. 397
Just recently, my father took him to the countryside 398
to work with him since he wasn't doing anything. 399
It turns out he drank there as well. 400
And he passed out on the street. 401
So the police called my father. 402
My father didn't tell me anything 403
because he didn't want to upset me. 404
He told me when he came to Seoul. 405
So I told my husband, 406
"Are you even human?". 407
- Right. 408
- I've reached my limit. 409
- You might talk a bit harshly towards each other. 410
Isn't it hard to act like that in front of your in-laws? 411
- Were you stressed out again? 412
- Because you have to drink in the countryside? 413
- I have no friends in the countryside. 414
And I don't think it was appropriate for me 415
to drink with my father-in-law. So I drank alone and then 416
I came outside to smoke a cigarette and then fell asleep. 417
- Passing out on the street 418
can happen once or twice in life. 419
But if it happens when you're with your in-laws 420
and your wife's pregnant... 421
- You should quit right away. 422
- I would've quit drinking no matter what. 423
- I don't think it can get worse than this. 424
But was there something else? 425
- Yes. 426
- Is there something worse than this? 427
- It looks like he drinks every day, there must be a lot. 428
- I wish he would help around the house. 429
So when I ask him to help me out, 430
he says "You do it, I'm working". 431
Like this. 432
- So shameful. 433
- Let's say he can't help me because he's working, 434
but then shouldn't he help out when he's not working? 435
- Right. 436
- But he doesn't. 437
He even wakes me up and asks me to bring water. 438
- When you're sleeping? 439
- Yes. 440
- Because he gets stressed out. 441
- So I scolded at him. 442
- I feel stressed out hearing this. 443
- You get your own water. 444
I'm not your servant. 445
You won't bring it for me? 446
Then I'm not going to drink it. 447
And he just went back to sleep. 448
- Stressed out. 449
- One night I went to the bathroom because I had a stomachache, 450
and the baby woke up crying because she was hungry. 451
He could've hold the baby and put her back to sleep. 452
- Yes. 453
- Of course. 454
- But he yelled at me saying 455
that I went to the bathroom without giving the baby milk. 456
He was just lying there while the baby cried. 457
- Just talking lying down? 458
- Yes. 459
- I didn't know she went to the bathroom. 460
When my wife puts the baby to sleep and then watches TV or plays game in the living room 461
she doesn't hear the baby crying. 462
So I yell. 463
- Why don't you calm down the baby? 464
- Most dads with infants probably know this, 465
but I can't hold the baby because I think I'll hurt her. 466
- Why hurt her? 467
- We all hold the babies. 468
What are you talking about? 469
Why are you trying to put down all the dads out there? 470
- Even if I was just a guest to the house, 471
I think I would hold the baby if she was crying. 472
- I think the biggest problem is that you think 473
that everything you're doing is very common among other men. 474
Is that true? 475
- Mostly. 476
- It isn't. 477
- I think that's how you think. 478
You need to change that first. 479
- Who quits their job 35 times? 480
Most people don't. 481
Who wouldn't hold their babies? 482
No one. 483
You're normalizing everything that you do. 484
Doesn't that stress you out? 485
- Are there any friends that came on the show today? 486
- No. 487
- No friends? 488
- Someone here is letting out a big sigh. 489
- Since my husband keeps having these troubles, 490
most people have given up on him. 491
- Right. 492
No co-workers or anything. 493
Have you ever thought that your wife 494
might give up on this marriage someday? 495
- No I haven't. 496
I trust her, so I don't think... 497
- Let me ask then. 498
You've never thought about it? 499
When was the time you felt like giving up? 500
- The time that a woman desires to be loved the most 501
is when she is pregnant. 502
- Right. 503
- He's never given me a massage. 504
If I ask him for it he would say "Are you the only one giving birth?" 505
That's what he told me. 506
- So awful. 507
- And I actually broke my rib 508
while giving birth to my baby. 509
- Through natural birth? 510
- No I had a C-section 511
3 weeks before my due date. 512
I think the baby was positioned in the upper area. 513
So maybe it was from pushing the baby down, 514
but two of my ribs broke. 515
And it hurt a lot, every time I breathed... 516
- I know what it's like. 517
- It was hard for me to lie down or get up by myself. 518
So I would wait alone at the hospital 519
until my husband gets back from work. 520
But he wouldn't come and one time, 521
I had to use the toilet at night. 522
But I couldn't get up by myself. 523
- You can't. 524
- I had to force myself up, but I couldn't. 525
And I ended up urinating on the bed. 526
- Why didn't you come? 527
- I was a salesperson, so I had to wash and change my clothes before work 528
and most importantly, I couldn't get a good night's sleep 529
on the extra bed in the hospital. 530
- Stress. 531
- No one expects a good night's sleep there. 532
- Who would sleep so comfortably 533
in an extra bed at a hospital? 534
No one. 535
- You need to go even if you can't get any sleep. 536
- I didn't think she was that sick. 537
- I'm feeling so stressed out today. 538
- I don't know if he will ever change, 539
but if this keeps on repeating I'll lose my trust and faith 540
which I think are the most important things between a couple. 541
- Indeed. 542
Most important. 543
- If this is broken, I'm getting ready to leave anytime. 544
With my baby. 545
- This is very serious. 546
You heard her talk today. 547
How do you feel? 548
- I think it's a good thing I realized what I've said, 549
and I'll stick with one job from now on 550
and try really hard without being stressed. 551
Until now... 552
- I don't think these sweet words are not enough. 553
You must've made these promises before you got married 554
and when you were looking for other jobs. 555
- How could she trust you? 556
- I think she needs to hear a more specific plan. 557
- On how you can change. 558
- I've already told the package delivery company that I'm quitting. 559
- The package delivery company? 560
- Yes, and I'm looking for a position 561
at a supermarket again. 562
- You told the package delivery company that you're quitting, 563
but you can work a little longer if you wish to. 564
Right? 565
Why don't you work until you find a job at a supermarket? 566
- I can. 567
But gasoline alone costs almost 1000 dollars a month for the job. 568
- Even if the gas costs that much, 569
you must make some profit. 570
Right? 571
Not just as much you think. 572
But it's still better to earn something. 573
What do you think? 574
- That's right. 575
- So get a different job before you go back to the supermarket. 576
Drinking, what are you going to do about that? 577
- The most important, drinking. 578
- I will reduce my drinking down to once every 3 days. 579
- So twice a week. 580
- But you said that you can only sleep early if you drink 581
so that you can get up early for work the next day. 582
But we've all been drinking for years now... 583
- No way. 584
- So I know that doesn't make any sense. 585
- That's an excuse. 586
- You need to get in the habit of falling asleep without drinking. 587
You need to lower your dependency on alcohol. 588
- What worries me the most is that your words are shallow. 589
Don't you feel like you're lying to yourself? 590
What I hate the most is losing a battle with myself. 591
You need to stick to your words and promises, 592
yet you've been losing to yourself for so long. 593
You're so used to losing. 594
Think about your life and how you've been repeating this. 595
Should you lose to yourself one again? 596
This is something you should really be stressed about. 597
Don't succumb to yourself. 598
- Say what's deep in your mind to him. 599
- I know you're having some hard time as well. 600
If you tell me things you'd like me to change, I'll try. 601
So please, try to drink less and 602
don't quit your new job so easily like before. 603
If you feel like giving up, please think of our baby. 604
- Jin-young. 605
- It's a concern. 606
I understand you must be stressed out too, 607
but I hope you feel a little more responsible since you have a family to take care of now. 608
- I think it's a concern. 609
- If you think this was a concern for both the wife and husband, 610
please press the button. 611
- 5. 612
4. 613
3. 614
2. 615
1. 616
Finished. 617
- Finished. 618
- I hope this was a big turning point for you. 619
Is there anything you'd like to say to your wife? 620
You can't say it when you're alone with her. 621
Say what's in your mind. 622
- I didn't think I could get married, but thanks for marrying a guy like me. 623
And giving birth to our beautiful baby girl. 624
I will try my best from now on 625
to be a proud husband. 626
Love you. 627
- Let's see how many votes we got. 628
'The guy who doesn't last long.' 629
Show us. 630
The guy who switched his job 35 times. 631
- We hope his last job is at the supermarket. 632
- Wow~ 633
- 197? 634
- Easily past it. 635
- 197? 636
- 157. 637
- The next one's title is 'My Ugly Duckling Dad'. 638
Hi, I'm the Ugly Duckling Dad Seo Sang-hwa. 639
My second daughter who turns grade 5, 640
treats me worse than a little bug. 641
When my daughter was in kindergarten, 642
I went to pick her up. 643
- Why are you here? 644
Go away. 645
Go! 646
- This is a daughter. 647
A daughter who is doing this. 648
If I meet her in front of the elevator, 649
"Wait for dad~". 650
But she closes the door and goes up alone. 651
One of my lifelong dreams is to on the elevator with my daughter. 652
- His dream is to get on the elevator with her. 653
- The saddest thing is. 654
- "I told you not to come, go away!" 655
- Can you make your voice cuter? 656
- She pushed me and ran away crying. 657
My daughter, did I do something wrong? 658
I'd ask her hundreds of time, but she wouldn't tell me. 659
Why is my daughter acting this way? 660
Please help me. 661
- He must be so sad. 662
- This is really sad. 663
- Let's welcome the guest then. 664
Please come out. 665
- He is handsome... 666
- Does your daughter run away from you every time? 667
- I can't understand it. 668
- Me neither. 669
- I'm really close with my elder daughter like friends. 670
But my younger daughter avoids me in particular. 671
When we hold her hands outside because it's dangerous, 672
she would walk away from me and go to her mother. 673
Even in elevators, she would just leave without me. 674
We live on the 22nd floor. 675
- And you're right behind. 676
- So you have to wait for the elevator? 677
- Our apartment building has 30 floors, so it takes a long time. 678
- And? 679
- When we're on subways... 680
She pretends like she doesn't know me. 681
- When you're near her? 682
I wonder how she is at home though. 683
- If I get home after work, she'll just pretend like I'm not there. 684
Kind of like that. 685
- Doesn't she greet you? 686
- Rarely. 687
- Since when did she... 688
- And recently... 689
- Become so awkward around you? 690
- If I go to pick her up at the kindergarten bus, 691
She tells me not to come close. 692
Tells me to stay behind a bench. 693
- Behind a bench? 694
At least she told you a comfortable place. 695
- Behind a bench? 696
- When she was 6 years old? 697
6 or 7 years old? 698
Can you at least guess why? 699
- I used to ask her why, 700
but she would refuse to answer. 701
- There must be a reason. 702
- I want to hear what it is. 703
- But why? He is your father. 704
- So, she doesn't like being with you around other people. 705
How did you get her to come here with you in front of almost 200 people? 706
- I explained to her and she said 707
that she will never go on the show. 708
So I persuaded her and told her I would buy her something. 709
- You made a deal... 710
- Let's meet your daughter and ask her why. 711
Hello daughter. 712
- Hello. 713
- Hi. 714
- Aww, she looks so cute. 715
- So cute. 716
- What made you come out on this show today? 717
- I didn't want to but my dad asked me to. 718
- Did you want to come to work things out with dad today? 719
- No. 720
But it seems like... 721
- So stern. 722
- No. 723
- But you have something to say to dad? 724
- I think he has misunderstandings. 725
- Misunderstanding? 726
- You wanted to tell him that. 727
- I want to hear this. 728
- Right. 729
Trying to get rid of such misunderstanding. 730
- What I'm really curious about is that 731
you run away from dad when you're outside. 732
- Yes. 733
- Why? 734
Are you embarrassed of your dad? 735
- Yes. 736
- Why, why? 737
Why are you embarrassed of him? 738
- He looks older than my friends. 739
- Your friends' dads? 740
- Yes. 741
- So you're embarrassed of him because he's old? 742
- Yes. 743
- That's understandable. 744
If dad is bit old. 745
- Then who does your friends' dads look like? 746
If they look younger than your dad? 747
- Jeong Chan-woo? 748
- Jeong Chan-woo... 749
- That's impolite. 750
- Come here you! 751
Are you trying to befriend me? 752
Really? 753
I'm similar age to your dad. 754
Judging based on looks... 755
- I'm 52 years old. 756
- You're older than me. 757
You look very young. 758
- Very young. 759
- You don't look like you're 52. 760
You look like you're in your mid to late 40s. 761
- So you run away from dad just because of his looks? 762
- He shows a photo of me that looks like him to people. 763
- Oh... 764
- Doesn't my daughter look like me? 765
- There are photos for comparison. 766
Let's take a look. 767
Let's see. 768
- She's really hating this. 769
- This is the dad. 770
- Is this the photo? 771
- They have the same eyes. 772
You don't like this photo? 773
- You look so pretty. 774
- So pretty. 775
- So cute, so cute. 776
- You have a cute tongue. 777
It's hard to have a tongue like that. 778
- I think she is dissatisfied with your looks, what do you think? 779
- I'm probably 10 years older than her friends' dads. 780
- Yes. 781
- So I try... 782
- Not to look so old. 783
- So I dyed my hair. 784
- She told you to dye your hair? 785
- Even today, she told me to wear this, wear that. 786
She tends to criticize me a lot. 787
- Dad cares a lot. 788
- You look very trendy. 789
- Yes, very stylish. 790
- Look at these socks. 791
- It's not common to wear these at 52 years old. 792
- What does your daughter usually say to you? 793
- That I'm fat, old and have a big belly. 794
- She dissed you. 795
- It seems like Ha-eun is saying 796
that she didn't. 797
- You didn't? 798
- I never told him to dye his hair. 799
- He saw me and my sister do it and wanted to do it. 800
- What do you mean? 801
- So we bought him the hair dye. 802
- You might've not told him to do it, 803
but if you keep telling him that he is old and fat... 804
- He will try. 805
- He is trying to look for you. 806
She can act like that at her age. 807
That she looks like her dad... 808
- It's because she's going through puberty. 809
- You took a video of her when she was younger? 810
Okay, let's take a look. 811
- Dad, go behind the bench. 812
- What? 813
- Go behind the bench. 814
- Why? 815
- Because you're fat. 816
Fat. 817
- Dad must've been hurt. 818
Go behind the bench. 819
- She is really telling you to go behind the bench. 820
- What should older parents do? 821
- She used to do that a lot, 822
so I decided to film her that day. 823
I thought things would get better as she grew up... 824
- But it's still the same. 825
- Yes, the same. 826
- So you dress up as she wishes, 827
and is there anything else you did for her? 828
- I walked for about 8km a day. 829
I used to weigh 94kg and now I am 88kg... 830
- You lost a lot of weight. 831
- Yes. 832
- And also, 833
- I got to like Bangtan Boys. 834
- Bangtan Boys? 835
- I played their entire album while I drove 836
so I can talk to Ha-eun about it. 837
- That is so awesome of you. 838
- So I sang their song just a little when we were in the car 839
and she would tell me not to degrade them. 840
- To my boys? 841
- Yes, not to degrade my boys. 842
- Do you remember the verse you sang? 843
- You do, right? 844
- Can you sing just a little. 845
Let's go! 846
I wonder how you did it. 847
- She might tell him not to degrade them again. 848
- Can I do it? 849
- No, don't do it. 850
- Just a little. 851
- Do you get her permission? 852
- Just the title then. 853
- I wonder how he sang. 854
- Looking great from the front, from behind. 855
Great from your head to toe. 856
- Aww, so adorable. 857
- War of hormones, war of hormones. 858
- Don't you like that your dad is 859
trying this hard for you? 860
- He's losing his weight for his own good. 861
- I think he's doing it for you. 862
- Okay, putting the weight loss aside. 863
What about Bangtan Boys? 864
- I told him to play their songs. 865
Not to sing their songs. 866
- But don't you think that maybe 867
he's trying to relate to you? 868
- But I didn't ask for it. 869
- When did you feel the most sad because of your daughter? 870
- I work in computer graphics in movies and dramas. 871
- CG. 872
- So when I have a location shooting, I don't have time to go home. 873
- Because of work. 874
- It must be very busy. 875
- It's hard. 876
- One day I really missed them so I went to their school. 877
I said hello to my elder daughter first and then went to see Ha-eun, 878
and she was so embarrassed, telling me to go away. 879
Then she went into the restroom, crying. 880
- Crying? 881
- She cried? 882
- Yes. 883
So I waited for 5 minutes in front of the restroom. 884
But she didn't come out so I went home. 885
- You went home? 886
- Yes. 887
- You must've been really sad. 888
- Really sad. 889
- Even though he might be smiling now. 890
- Why did you cry in the restroom? 891
- Because he talked to my classmates who I'm not close with 892
asking them if I'm close with them 893
and if I'm doing well in school. 894
- Things like that. 895
- Why did you ask that 896
to friends that Ha-eun isn't close with? 897
- She was hanging out with them. 898
- He says you were hanging out with them. 899
Your dad says. 900
I wasn't hanging out with them, we were just near each other. 901
- But would it be okay if she just waved at you, 902
saying he missed you and then left? 903
- Really loudly. 904
- Like this. 905
Ha-eun, I'm here! 906
- That's what he does. 907
- Ha-eun, this is your dad! 908
- Yes. 909
- Some kids might not like that. 910
- Your family is here today. 911
- Yes. 912
- Your wife? 913
- She told me to resolve it on our own. 914
- She's very neutral. 915
- She won't get in between. 916
- I'm okay with it... 917
- Ha-eun's grandfather is here. 918
- Grandfather. 919
- She likes her grandfather. 920
- She's good with the grandfather? 921
Let's meet the grandfather first. 922
Hello. 923
- Hello. 924
I'm Ha-eun's grandfather. 925
- Can you relate to your son's concern 926
from your perspective? 927
- I do. 928
Parents can sometimes be strict to their kids, 929
but grandfathers don't. 930
- Right. 931
- So they like me and for my birthday, 932
they would prepare a week in advance. 933
They come and give me massages and tells me they love me. 934
So... 935
- They say they love their grandfather. 936
- I didn't know about this at first. 937
- Ha-eun likes how his grandfather looks. 938
- Not really. 939
- You like that, don't you? 940
- He seems happy right now. 941
- Do you take care of your appearance as well? 942
- I think my son is more handsome, 943
but maybe he's not loving her properly. 944
- Grandfather, in my opinion 945
I think you look more handsome. 946
- He's liking it. 947
He likes it. 948
- One day Ha-eun told me she was having a sports day at school 949
so I called my son to ask him about it. 950
But he didn't know about it. 951
- Not at all? 952
You were left out of it. 953
- So strange. 954
It turns out that Ha-eun told not to tell dad. 955
So that's when I realized that 956
something was wrong between them. 957
- How did you feel? 958
When you didn't hear about the sports day? 959
- Upsetting. 960
It felt very... 961
- It must be complicated. 962
Why didn't you tell dad about sports day? 963
- Because it's embarrassing. 964
- What's embarrassing? 965
- I didn't want him to come and talk. 966
- That he might come and say "Ha-eun!"? 967
- Yes. 968
- Your dad says he doesn't do that. 969
- He does. 970
- I do... 971
- Show us how you do it. 972
- Show us. 973
How do you act at her school? 974
- Ha-eun! 975
- I don't like that. 976
He says it louder. 977
Louder. 978
- She just doesnât like someone yelling out her name 979
and getting attention from other people. 980
- But even if I just walk by her, 981
she will jaywalk and walk away from me. 982
- If dad is near? 983
- Why did you do that? 984
- There are other students on the street as well. 985
And he would speak loudly, 986
making everyone else look. 987
- If your grandfather sees you on the street 988
doesn't he call your name? 989
- No. 990
- Then he just approaches you quietly? 991
- He just doesn't see me. 992
- Huh? 993
- He doesn't see me. 994
- He can't see her. 995
- I think the elder daughter can give us some objective opinion. 996
Let's meet the elder daughter. 997
Hi. 998
- Hello. 999
- Nice to meet you. 1000
- Can you understand how your dad feels? 1001
- Completely. 1002
- Really? 1003
- Ha-eun really dislikes dad, 1004
and she'll do anything to avoid physical contact with him. 1005
If dad manages to kiss Ha-eun on the cheeks, 1006
she will wipe it off with a towel. 1007
She won't even sit in the same table with dad 1008
and never use the same cup with dad. 1009
- Why do you think Ha-eun is acting this way? 1010
- I don't get it, but when I ask Ha-eun, 1011
she just says he is fat and old. 1012
But I can't understand it at all. 1013
- Right. 1014
- I think Ha-eun is being too sensitive. 1015
I don't understand. 1016
- Does your dad ask your friends about you 1017
when he goes to your school as well? 1018
- Calling your name loudly? 1019
- Yes, but I don't mind. 1020
- You don't? 1021
- Ha-eun has something to say. 1022
Say it Ha-eun. 1023
- I avoid physical contact because he reeks of cigarettes. 1024
- Reeks... 1025
- Interesting choice of word. 1026
- Reeks of cigarettes. 1027
- Tell us this kind of stuff. 1028
- Well, why do you avoid him at home? 1029
- He's so creepy at home. 1030
- How? 1031
- He wants to hug me and kiss me right after waking up. 1032
I wouldn't like it even if it was mom or grandfather, 1033
if they did it so creepily. 1034
- Elder daughter, you can say something. 1035
- I think he smokes, 1036
but he doesn't smell that bad. 1037
- Do you by any chance... 1038
- Hey. 1039
- He sprays a lot of 1040
air fresheners... 1041
- He tries hard. 1042
- Cigarette and perfume mixed together 1043
smells even more horrible. 1044
- Yeah, the smell gets worse. 1045
- Yes, but.. 1046
- Dad is showing his affection for you. 1047
Can't you just accept it once or twice? 1048
- But it's so creepy. 1049
- How does he do it? 1050
How do you do it... 1051
Can you show us? 1052
How do you do it. 1053
- Give me a little kiss, just once. 1054
- It's nice. 1055
- Can you tell us what you like about your dad? 1056
You only talked about what you didn't like. 1057
- I haven't thought about it. 1058
- Try. 1059
- Think about it right now. 1060
- A good thing about your dad. 1061
- Okay, do one for your grandfather first then. 1062
- He's rich and handsome. 1063
- So it's all money and looks. 1064
- Then what about dad? 1065
One thing about dad. 1066
What do you like most about him? 1067
- At least he's strong. 1068
- Strong. 1069
- At least he's strong. 1070
- What concerns you the most? 1071
- I didn't have much concern back then. 1072
I thought that most kids are like this. 1073
But I'm worried that this is going to continue. 1074
My mother is suffering from dementia right now, 1075
and I keep thinking about all the memories with her. 1076
- Right. 1077
- So I want to leave a lot of good memories with her. 1078
And I think these memories with your family 1079
can help you keep strong 1080
during one of your most difficult times. 1081
So I really hope that we can work things out 1082
before she gets older. 1083
- I'm worried that how Ha-eun treats his dad 1084
could become how she treats others as well. 1085
- Does that worry you? 1086
- One time, she bumped into a food delivery guy at the elevator 1087
and she would say bad things to him. 1088
Kind of criticizing his appearance. 1089
- Ha-eun? 1090
- Ay, ay. 1091
- I think she said "So annoying". 1092
Something like that. 1093
- "So annoying"? 1094
- To the delivery guy? 1095
- I scolded her that day. 1096
- Anything else? 1097
- Sometimes she would criticize other people's appearance when we are eating at a restaurant. 1098
- That must worry you a lot. 1099
- Why do you do that? 1100
- I didn't criticize. The delivery guy went up 1101
and I had to use the toilet really bad. 1102
So my sister whispered at my ear 1103
that he was annoying. 1104
- I thought he was kind of annoying. 1105
So I whispered to Ha-eun 1106
about the delivery guy. 1107
When he was getting off the elevator, 1108
Ha-eun said "my sister thinks you're annoying". 1109
She told the delivery guy. 1110
- I didn't say it that loudly. 1111
- But. 1112
- If he still hears it. 1113
This is a misunderstanding. 1114
- He's an adult. 1115
- I really want to stop her from 1116
being rude to others or lying. 1117
- Of course. 1118
- Maybe through physical punishment, but I just don't know how to do it. 1119
- How to do it. 1120
- Ha-eun, since you're here today with dad, 1121
is there anything you'd like him to know? 1122
- He would post photos of me sleeping with my belly showing. 1123
- Of Ha-eun? 1124
- That's because it's adorable. 1125
- We also puts up photos of me dancing in my pajamas and my letters. 1126
- Where does he post them? 1127
- SNS. 1128
- It must've been shocking for you then. 1129
Have you ever told dad about it? 1130
About this kind of stuff. 1131
- Many times. 1132
- What does your dad say then? 1133
- That he was just joking around. 1134
- What else was embarrassing for you? 1135
- Tell us two. 1136
- In kindergarten, you might pee during your sleep when you have a nightmare. 1137
- Of course. 1138
- You might. 1139
- He would post photos of how I peed on the bed. 1140
- No, dad. 1141
- And? 1142
- I can't say this. 1143
- You can't say it? 1144
Her sister doesn't even know it. 1145
- No. 1146
She knows. 1147
She told me not to say it. 1148
- Taking a bath? 1149
- All women wear underwear. 1150
And my dad was telling everyone about it. 1151
- Dad is a little bit silly. 1152
- Yeah. 1153
- Dad... 1154
- When did I do that? 1155
- You don't remember what you did? 1156
- On SNS. 1157
- These are jokes you should me making to sons... 1158
- Girls are a bit more sensitive... 1159
- She's actually a late child. 1160
- She is so cute, so cute. 1161
- But for her, it's something she wants to hide. 1162
- So he shouldn't expect me to like him 1163
when he's doing all these things. 1164
- It's a good thing you came on the show today. 1165
- Why can't you understand... 1166
That's what you don't understand. 1167
- When he wants to be loved. 1168
He says I don't like him, but he's doing things that I don't like. 1169
- Right. 1170
- That's the conclusion. 1171
- How do you feel? 1172
- I think it's my fault. 1173
- You two may switch seats. 1174
- But it may be hard for him to know this. 1175
- Yes, dads might not know. 1176
- So, your dad has embarrassed you before. 1177
But would you accept if he apologizes? 1178
- Yes, but he apologized a lot for 6 years. 1179
It's gotten worse. 1180
- Your dad must've come on this show for a reason. 1181
If he's apologizing in front of 200 people, 1182
he will change from now on. 1183
- When you look at Bangtan Boys, 1184
You even like their silly-looking photos, right? 1185
You want to see their photos when they were young, right? 1186
- Yes. 1187
- You like everything about them right? 1188
They are so handsome? 1189
- Yes. 1190
- Your dad likes everything about you as well. 1191
- I think she understands it. 1192
- They look handsome even if they go off note. 1193
Yes. 1194
And you like them even if they are sweaty and smelly. 1195
Your dad likes you just like how you like Bangtan Boys. 1196
Everything. 1197
- He likes you hundred and thousand times more 1198
than you like Bangtan Boys. 1199
- You know that your dad loves you. 1200
You know how he feels. 1201
Because he's your dad. 1202
- Can you understand him a little? 1203
- A little. 1204
- It'll get better with time and you know the reason now. 1205
Is there anything you want to say to your daughter? 1206
- Ha-eun. 1207
- Cute. 1208
- Ha-eun, move the microphone. 1209
- Come out. 1210
- It's not something to be embarrassed of. 1211
It's okay. 1212
- I know that you're a nice girl. 1213
I remember the letter you wrote for Father's day. 1214
It meant the world to me when you said 1215
"I won't make you lonely, dad". 1216
I feel bad that I didn't know 1217
how to love you properly. 1218
I'll try to change that from now on. 1219
Love you . 1220
- You're a really good dad. 1221
- MC Gree. 1222
Do you think this is a concern? 1223
- No, I don't think it's a concern. 1224
I think she is not far from the age 1225
when she'll realize how valuable and thankful her dad is. 1226
- I picked it as a concern in a sense that 1227
I want her to build a lot of memories with her dad. 1228
Be good with your dad. 1229
- Dad wants to love her daughter so much 1230
but he can't right now. 1231
Please press the button if you think this is a concern. 1232
- 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. 1233
Stop. 1234
- Finished. 1235
Ha-eun, do you think you spoke your mind 1236
to your father today? - Yes 1237
- Is there anything you would like to say to him? 1238
No? 1239
Are you going to be good? 1240
Just say one thing then "Dad, I'll be good too". 1241
Tell him you love him. 1242
Dads' hearts melt when they hear that. 1243
- Make a heart. 1244
- She's doing it. 1245
She's doing it. 1246
Her hand is going up. 1247
How do you feel? 1248
- Really good. 1249
So happy. 1250
- Good. 1251
- The best, best. 1252
- Tell her you love her too. 1253
The elder daughter too. 1254
- Love you dad. 1255
- Okay. 1256
- I wonder how many votes we got. 1257
'My Ugly Duckling Dad'. 1258
Let's see the results. 1259
- The last digit is 8. 1260
Huh? 1261
How many votes? 1262
118. 1263
- Thank you. 1264
- Thank you. 1265
- This is the last concern. 1266
Hello. 1267
I'm a soon-to-be college student, Kim Jae-oh. 1268
I live for hip hop. 1269
However, there is someone who criticizes my dream. 1270
And it's my parents. 1271
What are you saying. 1272
Be quiet. 1273
Dad. 1274
What is that, a spell? 1275
What is that. 1276
My parents don't understand rap at all. 1277
- They don't. 1278
- I tried to persuade them. 1279
Dad, do you see those people on TV? 1280
They are so popular... 1281
They look so arrogant. 1282
I don't want to see them. 1283
I can't even practice rap at home. 1284
Thump thump. 1285
My mom yells "Why don't you just study!". 1286
Ay. 1287
- That sounds like dad. 1288
- I thought it was his dad too. 1289
- Hey you. 1290
- Do you feel stressed out? 1291
- I'm stressed out about my dialect. 1292
Should I take you out my family registry? 1293
In fact, 1294
it was the day I took the most important audition in my life. 1295
Ah! 1296
Why didn't the alarm ring? 1297
I couldn't go to the audition 1298
- That's harsh. 1299
- because of my mom who turned off my alarm clock. 1300
- It was his dream. 1301
- I'm having such a hard time because of my parents who are against my dream. 1302
Please help me persuade my parents today. 1303
This is the concern. 1304
- MC Gree must have a lot to say about this. 1305
- Do you think the he will be frustrated? 1306
- Very much. 1307
- Right? 1308
- Once you get into it, there is no going out. 1309
I was like this too. 1310
- That swag... 1311
- Really arrogant. 1312
And they're young. 1313
- Rappers have this distinct way of talking. 1314
- Yes. 1315
- Jin-young, were your parents supportive of you becoming a singer? 1316
- No. 1317
They hated it. 1318
They told me to never do it. 1319
That there is no guarantee that I will succeed. 1320
- That's the biggest problem. 1321
- But I didn't give up and 1322
kept on applying for auditions. 1323
I used to do that. 1324
- But they must love it now. 1325
- Yes they do. 1326
It's good that you became a singer. 1327
- Today's guest is concerned about his parents 1328
who strongly opposes his dream to be a rapper. 1329
Please come out. 1330
- Hello. 1331
- He looks so cute. 1332
- You look far from a rapper. 1333
- Please introduce yourself. 1334
- Hello. 1335
I'm 20 years old, and I want to live as a rapper forever. 1336
- Do you have a name 1337
- like MC Gree? 1338
- I have a rapper name too, Oh-jae-ka-jae. 1339
- Oh-jae-ka-jae? 1340
- Oh-jae is my name spelled backwards, 1341
and ka-jae is for reaching far. 1342
- Don't you think that maybe it sounds too tacky? 1343
- Oh-jae-ka-jae, kind of like knicker knacker. 1344
- Like this and that. 1345
- So we have Oh-jae-ka-jae here today. 1346
Yes. 1347
Just think about it. 1348
What made you come on the show? 1349
I heard you have a big goal today. 1350
- My parents tell me that I won't succeed 1351
and that I won't be able to make a living from it. 1352
So I came here today to 1353
settle things once and for all. 1354
- Okay. 1355
- Very determined... 1356
- How much are your parents against it? 1357
- There are many hip hop programs these days. 1358
And they usually cross their legs, sitting laid back. 1359
- He disses them. 1360
- Yes. 1361
- He just doesn't like them. 1362
- I like to dress in baggy clothes. 1363
And he tells me not to dress like a homeless person. 1364
I told him I want to get my ears pierced, 1365
and he told me he would pierce me too then. 1366
- So cruel. 1367
- Pierce you. 1368
- Your dad. 1369
- What's upsetting is that if I'm in the shower for too long, 1370
he asks me if I'm eating poop. 1371
- He's very good at dissing. 1372
- Maybe you haven't shown them 1373
that you're really trying hard? 1374
- After I get home from school and part-time job, 1375
I practice rap for about 3 hours. 1376
I write lyrics and show them to my friends. 1377
I have about 30 songs written. 1378
- Why would they be so opposed then? 1379
- Well, my parents are 40 years older than me. 1380
- You're a late child. 1381
- A late child and the only son. 1382
There is a generational gap. 1383
So they think that rap is just swearing 1384
and that trot is the only real music. 1385
- Let's meet your dad and mom. 1386
Hello. 1387
- Hello. 1388
- What made you come on this show today? 1389
- My son wants to rap 1390
and I want to stop him. 1391
- You came to stop him. 1392
<b- i="" came="" to="" aggressively="" stop="" him.<="" b=""> 1393
- Why are you trying to stop him? 1394
- He should go to college and study. 1395
There is no future in rapping. 1396
- Do you think that the only real music is trot? 1397
- Then you must like Jin-young. 1398
- Yes. 1399
- Hello. 1400
- Just one line. 1401
One, two, three, four. 1402
- Fill me with love. 1403
You're my battery. 1404
- Are you going to approve if he sings trot? 1405
- No. 1406
- No. 1407
- His rapping is so bad. 1408
How good can his trot be? 1409
- You think your son's rapping is bad. 1410
- Have you ever seen him rap? 1411
- Oh-jae-ka-jae. 1412
- Oh-jae-ka-jae is hard to forget. 1413
- It's okay. 1414
- If you hear it once. 1415
- Oh-jae-ka-jae has more impact than MC Gree. 1416
- Have your parents ever seen you rap? 1417
- Yes, when I tried to persuade them. 1418
In front of them. 1419
But they tell me to go back to my room. 1420
- How do you feel when you see your son rap? 1421
- It's not even a song, and he's mumbling. 1422
- That's rap. 1423
- It sounds like gangsters singing in the alley. 1424
I just don't like it. 1425
- Gangsters being sleazy in the alley. 1426
- I don't like it. 1427
- Really? 1428
- He doesn't even seem human. 1429
- What? 1430
- It doesn't sound like a human singing. 1431
- The rapping doesn't sound like a human... 1432
- Like a crazy person. 1433
- It might sound a bit strange, rapping without no beat. 1434
- How do you feel about your parents saying this? 1435
- It's upsetting because it's my dream. 1436
They scold me in front of my relatives, 1437
comparing me to my cousin with a good job. 1438
When my friends come over, 1439
"Are you guys doing well in school? He's not, he's rapping". 1440
- Oh, always. 1441
- Which university did you get into? 1442
- There were these two colleges I was arguing over with my mom. 1443
And I gave up for her. 1444
She told me to major in finances, 1445
which caused a lot of trouble between us. 1446
So I gave up to her, but I don't want to anymore... 1447
- It is a great thing to have a dream. 1448
Can't you respect him? 1449
- Let him make his own choices. 1450
- I don't know. 1451
- It's his life. 1452
- It's his life, but as a parent I still feel responsible. 1453
To butt in a little. 1454
- So you're saying rapping is not right. 1455
- Yes. 1456
- So you turned off the alarm on purpose. 1457
- No, not on purpose. It was the weekend so I wanted him to sleep in. 1458
- To sleep in? 1459
- He must've been tired. 1460
- To sleep in? 1461
- Yes. 1462
- You didn't know he had an audition? 1463
- You didn't tell her. 1464
- Didn't tell her. 1465
- Would you have woken him up if you knew he had an audition? 1466
No, I still wouldn't. 1467
Just let him sleep. 1468
- Do you feel like your son has changed because of rap? 1469
Are you upset about something? 1470
- He used to talk a lot with me until middle school 1471
and we used to all sleep together in the living room. 1472
One day, he started mumbling these songs and 1473
kept distance from me. When he comes home 1474
he would lock his room door and won't come out. 1475
- But mother, 1476
That's not because of rap, but because he grew up. 1477
Yes. 1478
- What made you decide you want to rap? 1479
- I used to be very shy around people and 1480
I could never imagine talking in front of so many people. 1481
- Really? 1482
- My friend recommended Sir Swings' music in high school. 1483
- Sir Swings. 1484
- The lyrics were so honest. 1485
- Yes, very straightforward. 1486
- Not caring about what other people think. 1487
It was the opposite of me and I loved it. 1488
So I wrote my life experiences as lyrics. 1489
I got a girlfriend after I started rapping. 1490
- Oh~ 1491
- Your son got a girlfriend because of rapping. 1492
- Let him rap. 1493
- Because he is confident? 1494
- But just because he has a dream, 1495
it doesn't mean that his parents can support him. 1496
There has to be a more objective judgment. 1497
If he has talent from an objective view 1498
would you support him? 1499
- Not yet. 1500
- No... 1501
- You can give him a chance. 1502
- Would you oppose it even if he was good at it? 1503
- Not yet. 1504
- Just on a side note, 1505
Do you know how much money rappers make? 1506
- I don't know that. 1507
- If you hear it... 1508
You'll support your son's dream. 1509
- Let's not say who, but let's say for rappers in Korea 1510
within the top 10%, maybe top 5% or 1%. 1511
- I think they would make about 2-3 million dollars a year. 1512
- 2-3 million dollars year. 1513
- In Korea? 1514
- What were you going to say? 1515
- What is the total percentage of that? 1516
- All jobs are like that. 1517
- No. 1518
This is more difficult. 1519
- So if professional rappers tell you 1520
that you need to listen to your parents 1521
and keep it as a hobby, 1522
would you do that? 1523
- No, than I'm just going to try harder... 1524
- They're the same. 1525
- He's just as stubborn as his father. 1526
- Do you want to hear his wrap? 1527
- Yes. 1528
- I'm so curious. 1529
- I'm worried how it might be. 1530
- We know some hip hop as well, 1531
but we have someone for an objective evaluation... 1532
- Who's here? 1533
- Rappers... 1534
There are my two close acquaintances. 1535
Two guests. 1536
Minos and Han-hae. 1537
- Minos, Han-hae 1538
- Look at his face. 1539
Wow. 1540
Look at the son. 1541
- Han-hae. 1542
- What will be the base for your judging today? 1543
- There is rhyming. 1544
I'll see how good he is at it. 1545
And also, he should keep up with the rhythm. 1546
I'm going to be looking at those two things. 1547
- I hope that Oh-jae-ka-jae has his own appeal. 1548
- First, his name. 1549
His name is appealing, isn't it? 1550
- Absolutely. 1551
- Oh-jae-ka-jae. 1552
- It's very hipster. 1553
- Yes. 1554
We didn't know. 1555
Oh-jae-ka-jae. 1556
- Oh-jae-ka-jae. 1557
- Oh-jae-ka-jae. 1558
- Say something to your parents first. 1559
- Is he starting now? 1560
- I hope you focus on my rapping 1561
and consider my dreams. 1562
- Oh-jae-ka-jae. 1563
- Drop the beat. 1564
- Yo. 1565
The night with my door open. 1566
I'm tired as usual. 1567
I melt down. 1568
And pull over my blanket. 1569
Lying on my bed. 1570
The only thing that lights me, 1571
is the moonlight beaming through the window. 1572
The clock is tick tocking again. 1573
Focus on its sound, 1574
everything else is silent. 1575
I can't keep my eyes off Facebook news feed. 1576
Everyone seems to be doing well. 1577
I'm somewhat jealous. 1578
I console myself that they're pretending. 1579
And I resent the morning to come. 1580
I hate how good dreams only come at night. 1581
Let me tie my shoe laces now. 1582
Even if I die, Oh-jae-ka-jae. 1583
Oh to the jae-ka-jae. 1584
The sleep around me becomes my house. 1585
Thank you. 1586
- You must've been really nervous. 1587
- Wow, you're better than I thought. 1588
Better than I expected. 1589
- His confidence is captivating. 1590
- He must've been really nervous. 1591
- As if you're a professional. 1592
His confidence is really... 1593
I don't know rap that much, 1594
but this was great. 1595
- Honestly, 1596
he's 20 years old. 1597
I think he's really serious about it, what do you think? 1598
- Minos. 1599
- He did better than I thought. 1600
- What did you think? 1601
- I thought he would be really bad. 1602
Because his parents were so concerned, but his lyrics were very good. 1603
- The lyrics were good. 1604
- I could hear it really well. 1605
I think with some practice, he could be really good. 1606
- So he has potentials? 1607
- Han-hae, Han-hae. 1608
- Well, a lot of people around his age rap about money 1609
when they don't even have it or something that is 1610
irrelevant to them, but he is talking about 1611
his true feelings in a very honest way. 1612
- His feelings? 1613
- It's one of his assets as a rapper. 1614
- There are just good things about him. 1615
Because his parents are here. 1616
- Yes. 1617
- What can he improve? 1618
- I think if he works on 1619
the rhyme to go with the rhythm, 1620
it'll get a lot better. 1621
- Mom and Dad. 1622
Does it sound different than it does at home? 1623
How was it? 1624
- Not much different. 1625
- But a lot of people are reacting differently. 1626
- It seems different to us. 1627
- As a parent, I think he has a long way to go. 1628
- How about you, mother? 1629
How was it? 1630
- You keep your doors firmly closed. 1631
- Same with me. 1632
- The same? 1633
- He just got a good review though. 1634
- But I don't know what rap is at all. 1635
- These guys here are really good at it. 1636
I wouldn't even know how good their rapping is. 1637
- Did you prepare anything Han-hae? 1638
- I... 1639
- If you don't, you don't. 1640
- No... but maybe can you play Oh-jae-ka-jae's beat? 1641
- Oh-jae-ka-jae's beat. 1642
- I'll make something up. 1643
Beat. 1644
I didn't prepare for this. 1645
Yo. 1646
I'll teach you how to groove. 1647
How to groove to the rhythm. 1648
Between the drum beat. 1649
How to extend that rhythm. 1650
If you follow my wrap. 1651
Your tongue will be twisted. 1652
The master of this song is me 1653
Gidiri and Ugly Duck. 1654
It's our show time. If your arm hurts just move your head. 1655
To the other rappers out there, don't just pretend. 1656
- Han-hae. 1657
- The mother's face is still the same. 1658
- Mom and dad doesn't realize any difference 1659
between their son and Han-hae's rapping. 1660
- Yes. 1661
- They don't realize what? 1662
- They don't have a standard to judge. 1663
- What do you want to say to him? 1664
First of all. 1665
- It might be hard to persuade your parents right now. 1666
But there are many options for you 1667
that you can do with your rapping. 1668
It's not that difficult these days to release a song these days. 1669
So maybe you can work hard at school, 1670
but show them a little bit of your music to persuade them. 1671
My parents were the same. 1672
- I hope you don't feel pressured to make money from this. 1673
I hope you just have more fun from it. 1674
- Have more fun. 1675
- Don't feel rushed. 1676
- But dad, what is your expectations for your son? 1677
- I want him to go to college, and get a 9 to 6 job. 1678
Get married with a good woman and have kids. 1679
Just living normally is what I prefer. 1680
- Pardon me, but do you still work? 1681
- I've been driving a cab for 10 years. 1682
- Cab driver. 1683
- 10 years. 1684
- I make more money during night time shifts. 1685
So I would be out late at night a lot for work. 1686
I guess we might be here today because we didn't communicate as much. 1687
Because I couldn't communicate with my son. 1688
And I don't want him to walk down the same path as me 1689
Isn't rapping like that? 1690
It's hard to make it to the top. 1691
So just live normally. 1692
- I think the fact that he sent us his concern 1693
means that he is very determined. 1694
Do you understand your parents? 1695
- I do, but I don't want to give anything up anymore. 1696
- I think you're concerned about rapper's incomes. 1697
Hip-hop used to be underground music back in the days, 1698
but now that it is mainstream, the market has grown. 1699
So many rappers can afford living by performing 1700
even if they don't make it to the top. 1701
- Right. 1702
- I'm not talking about short-term profits. 1703
I want him to look far into his future. 1704
I just don't like how he's doing hip hop right now. 1705
He could go to college and 1706
he can join some hip hop club there. 1707
As a hobby. 1708
That's okay. 1709
- This is a difficult issue. 1710
It's not like he doesn't understand his parents. 1711
But the son is very frustrated and upset. 1712
Say what you want to say to your parents in a rap... 1713
- He prepared it? 1714
- Do you want the microphone? 1715
- Make it loud. 1716
Think of it as a letter. 1717
A letter. 1718
- I would've done the same as a father. 1719
The amazing grace of parents. 1720
But I never eat poop in the bathroom. 1721
I'm sane and I'll keep on going. 1722
My mind and my body dislike each other. 1723
Is there something wrong with me? 1724
I'm sorry for the mama. 1725
But I can't stop now. 1726
I hate myself for this. 1727
But I really gotta do this. 1728
The tense feeling I got. 1729
It's okay mom and dad. 1730
When I do this, I can't help but smile. 1731
I'll be a rapper. 1732
- I don't think they understood it. 1733
- Just say it in words. 1734
- I don't think they understood. 1735
- You just slightly understood it, right? 1736
Say it in words, seriously. 1737
- I like it the most when I rap, 1738
and it changed me for the better. 1739
I understand why you're worried, 1740
but I feel the most like myself when I do this. 1741
So I hope you would reconsider. 1742
Is this a concern or not? 1743
- I think this is a concern. 1744
You're in the same shoes as him. 1745
My father believes is me, which is a big support for me. 1746
- Yes, he trusts you. 1747
- I think that believing is the same as supporting. 1748
- I think it's a concern too. 1749
They should talk this out. 1750
He can rap with his friends while studying hard. 1751
I hope things work out smoothly. 1752
- If you think this is a concern, 1753
please press the button. 1754
- 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. 1755
Finished. 1756
- Most younger generations, including college students, 1757
don't have any dreams these days. 1758
They don't know it yet. 1759
- That's right. 1760
I wanted to say it. 1761
- Something is wrong. 1762
- A lot of kids these days don't even have a dream. 1763
- You have a very smart son 1764
since he has a very clear goal at his age. 1765
You can trust me on this one. 1766
- Thank you. 1767
- A message to your son. 1768
- Jae-oh, it's not that mom and dad don't love you. 1769
We hope that you discuss these things with us. 1770
Let's work this out together and please keep up in school. 1771
I love you. 1772
- Let's see how many votes it got. 1773
Let's see the results. 1774
- Over 100. 1775
142. 1776
- 'The guy who doesn't last long' wins this week's title. 1777
Congratulations. 1778
For a healthy Korea without any worries. 1779
- We are always on your side. 1780
- Thank you. 1781
- Thank you.